Ok..So I believe I have to discuss Dating sites this week...good Luck with that one...But really
how about the dating site that takes about 2 years to completely fill out..about 60,000 questions.
The advertisement is just wonderful.."Well we met online and it's been wonderful, Harry was so nice on our first date we walked hand and hand in the moonlight, so romantic and the added benefit
was, Harry was not an Ax murder.." But it is what it is..Mostly we are all looking for the best, wealthiest, tallest, prettiest, smartest, happiest, funniest, and all that happy horse-stuff...
Certainly not to much to ask for, all within reason. It's the new way of finding a special person,
possible a human being, with half a brain would be more realistic and attainable. But you never
really know the person until you meet them in person..Everybody is great from what we read...and
when you meet the person your ready to run for the hills...thats when you can really know somebody, not really before that. So maybe it's like an ice breaker just to see a picture and read a little about the person. I had an experience were the girl said she looked like the boy on the Dutch Boy paint cans. She was right, just like that. But honestly I'm not interested in Dating the Dutch Paint boy..hey wait a minute - what about the Dutch Paint girl..never mind. Politics to come..Oh my God!
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ReplyDeleteI have not a clue about why the blogger have deleted every word from the comment from atalkwithyou, but to me it was interesant. It's truth that a text-based relationship is impersonal. I prefer maintaining a relationship by calling or meeting with the person (once in a while if he or she is far away).
ReplyDeleteOf course, it would be very silly if an adult man was saying to me that the thought of meeting me scares him. I would understand that he is unable to raise any interest in meeting me (or the inflation is too high :D). Probably he is hiding something or has insecurity issues or he really fear rejection.
The truth is that if one doesn't see a lasting future with that person, though one thinks that it might have proved quite good, it's better not to be worried about one is wasting their time on someone who is never going to want to see us (because simply doesn't want). We can't remain mistaking on the same thing a lifetime.
We all make mistakes, the issue is admitting them and learning from it because as adults we must not think that we stop learning... life is a big school.
I hope the blogger doesn't delete my comment.
Thank you for the corrections. I didn't know that the complete text of the post was appearing in email. :O And why don't you write here, ah?
ReplyDeleteOk. I am not American, I am proudly Latin from Lima. :P
It's truth, the post of this blogger reminded me of mistakes, unscrupulous guys and sad things and I didn't compliment those couples who got married last year after they met on the Internet: Sefora and Mitchell, Marianella and Chris, Gabriela and Patrick. Congratulations to the valiants winners!!! :P (I want a Italian! ;))
No, I am not going to marry the blogger... because he has not asked me anything, hahahah. He is my acquaintance, not my boyfriend (¡uuhhh!)
Just don't forget: don't think that everybody on the Internet wants to meet the love of their life, has good intentions or serious plans. Many are here with no good purpose, only to flirt and not get into a relationship (= "wasting time" or "fooling around").
Until next time!
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